The Ultimate Gift: A Demolition Manual for Control (Just in Time for Christmas)

Peace on Earth Begins in Your Living Room

We sing about “Peace on Earth” every December. We hang lights, we wrap gifts, and we gather with family. But for many of us, the reality of the holidays isn’t peace—it is friction.
It is the tension of the parent who still treats you like a child. It is the exhaustion of the spouse trying to “fix” a partner who doesn’t want to be fixed. It is the unspoken war of control that turns our homes into battlegrounds rather than sanctuaries.

I spent this last week in the “Forge”—writing with a level of intensity and fire that surprised even me. The result is a book that I believe is vital for this exact moment.
If you are looking for a Christmas gift that is more than just paper and ink—if you want to give the gift of a ceasefire—this is it.

The New Blueprint: In Whose Image?

In Whose Image?: The Immutable Laws of Sovereign Design and the Engineering of Relational Joy

I have spent time observing in welding shops. In that world, there is an immutable law: You cannot weld aluminum to steel. It doesn’t matter how hard you try, how hot the torch is, or how much force you apply. It will not bond.

Yet, in our families, we try to do this every day. We try to force the human soul to conform to a design that violates its nature. We try to “mold” our children or “fix” our spouses to soothe our own anxiety.

We call it love. But it is actually Spiritual Theft.

“In Whose Image?” is a demolition manual for that control. It applies the Seven Governing Dynamics to the messiness of relationships. It teaches you how to stop “crapfitting” your loved ones into boxes that don’t fit and how to start engineering true relational joy.

Give the Gift of the “Sanctuary”

This Christmas, you can give socks, or you can give a different way of living.
This book is for the exhausted parent, the frustrated spouse, or the adult child who is tired of the fighting. It teaches the “Protocol of Annealing”—how to take a brittle, broken relationship and repair it using heat, time, and the removal of force.
It is time to lay down the hammer of control. It is time to stop trying to be the “owner” of other people’s lives and start being the “steward” of your own.
Welcome to the Forge.

Love Always, Kelly L. Call